Time is All We Have

  • By Christopher Degenaars
  • 10 Dec, 2016
Well, clearly this whole "weekly update" thing has gone poorly...in my defense, I have been wanting to write something, but just couldn't think of what it would be. Not that nothing has been going on, cause oh man has it been a busy few weeks! It's just, the grind has been on full force and I haven't been able to actually stop and think or reflect. Now I am, because of the title of this blog, because it is true, time is all we have.
I have had the amazing opportunity to grow. To learn. To experience more than what a textbook would teach me.
Long Drive Agency, my mentor, and LDA's owner, Blake has given me this opportunity to grow as a writer and as a young man. Not many people can give you this ability, but through the course of a few months, I have seen myself go from a young and naive teenager who had a small following of supporters, to a young man who is eager to become a successful marketer on his platforms.
But really, time is all we have. That's it. Time.
I attended the Digital Summit in Dallas this past week and my mind has been swirling with ideas and motivation to really begin grinding out the work. Like, what I have been doing is irrelevant, because what is coming is so amazing and will be such a change in everything I do, it is crazy.
I have spent a lot of my time growing myself in multiple areas of my life, and that is stopping now. I have tried for too long to be great at a lot of little things, and it has really gotten me nowhere. I am stopping that...now.
2016 has been one of the most chaotic, stressful, and roll-coaster like year of my life. Having lost my friend in 2015, having gotten 2 new jobs that changed my life, having another friend killed by a dick driver, and some of the lowest points of my life; it has been hard. Yet I am here and 2017 is right around the corner and I could not be more stoked about what is coming for me.
I have gone through some extremely low points in 2016, and when I made that blog post about what I had been going through, the outpouring support from friends all around the nation was so overwhelming. It motivated me like no other, and the grind really didn't even begin then, but a mindset change did.
Because time is all we have, because life is short, because every second we have is so valuable, I am going to say 2 things...
1) Thank you for taking YOUR time to read this. You didn't have to. You have hundreds of things you could've been doing, but you read this. Thank you.
2) Go live. Go do what you were too scared to do this morning. Go call that guy. Go get that girls number. Start that business. Try that sport. Go. Go do it.
Time is all you have.

Chris Degenaars

By Christopher Degenaars 03 Aug, 2017

“Alexa, add milk to my shopping list.”

“Siri, what’s the high for today.”

Just 2 of the phrases I have found myself iterating out loud to one of my voice assistants. Things I never thought I would genuinely say in such a conversational way to a device that has no one on the other end.

Many tech leaders have been saying for the past 12 months (ish) that voice was going to be the next big disruptor in tech . Rightfully so, consumer behavior has certainly shown that we are valuing our time more and more which means that those extra seconds it takes for me to come to a stop to, take out my phone, and add milk to my shopping list is too much of an inconvenience.

By 2020, voice is said to make up 50% of all searches . Which is a pretty big expectation for something that currently only makes up 20% of search  types.

At the end of the day though, as the quote says, time is money, and we are starting to value that money at a higher currency than ever before. Of course, not everyone will value it at the same rate, and tech companies recognize that.

Trevor Jones, an analyst at Adobe Digital Insights , a global leader in research and data trends of consumers, said that “…device sales [Amazon Alexa, Google Home, Microsoft Cortona, and others] are performing well but have not yet become a standard household purchase.”

Going to the common understanding that although sales have increased for these smart devices, it is not an expected item to be sold to consumers, yet. Even with that being said, it is suspected that there will be 21.4 MILLION smart speakers  in 2020.

Voice search, as of now, has been helping businesses rank on search engines because most searches using voice are longer queries.

Traditionally, text searches take a massive drop  after about three words (peaking at two words). Although voice follows the same trend, dropping around four or five words (peaking at three words), they have a fairly high search rate towards the six to seven-word query.

That is a little surprising that they both take a massive hit in searches around the same word count, but we are so used to getting straight to the point…even when talking.

But, let’s put it to the test. Try answering these two questions:

If you wanted to find out the weather today…

1. How would you type it into Google?

2. How would you ask Siri (or Alexa, Google, Cortona)?


The vast majority of people would answer with the following:

1. Weather

2. Alexa, what’s the weather for today?


We all do it. Without even ever realizing it, we have altered how we communicate based on if it is via text or voice. We even do it with texting versus phone calls, because texting means you’re not cutting into my time too much, so I won’t give you too much of it, where a phone call means I am already dedicating my time to you.

Whether the voice recognition industry will really be an $18 billion industry by 2023, I don’t know.

The one thing I know is, voice saves time, and at the end of the day, if I can save time on small tasks like finding out the weather, ordering food, or even updating my shopping list, I’ll buy into it.

Because of time. It is all about time.

By Christopher Degenaars 31 Jul, 2017

1.1 Million Americans  Attempt Suicide Annually.

Nearly 45,000 Americans Commit Suicide Every Year.

5 to 17 year-olds hospital admissions  more than doubled from 2008 to 2015 for suicidal thoughts or actions.

On average, there are 121 suicides per day .

Your Story Matters — Don’t Give Up The Fight
Call (1)800–273–8255

T hese aren’t just numbers; these are people. They are sons and daughters, brothers and sisters, moms and dads.

I have been fairly outspoken when it comes to my suffering of depression and suicidal thoughts/actions. I decided that this is how I wanted to live my life moving forward, I didn’t just want to be silent and let the world go on thinking it was just a “phase” or that those 45,000 lives were just statistics.

In the past five years or so, it seems that mental illness has taken a larger spotlight for discussion after many celebrities have taken their lives. However, we are still not talking enough about it. The discussions get loud for a week, two weeks, maybe even a month after a recognizable name takes their life, but then it dissipates, and we go back to pretending it doesn’t exist.

That is not how it should happen, that is not how we should be treating this situation.

Too many see mental illnesses as a phase, as a kid being “too sensitive” whatever the hell that means, or as a someone holding onto a grudge.

We ignore the signs. We ignore the cries for help. We pretend that none of it is true because it is easier for us to pretend that it isn’t our fault it is happening, that if something does happen to that “poor troubled boy” or that “sensitive girl” that it wasn’t our fault.

We see the signs, but we ignore them. We hate to admit that someone may be truly unhappy with their life, but we hate to have to inconvenience ourselves even more.

It is so much easier just to say “it’ll get better” than to stick by them till it does get better because one requires us to actually care and put in the effort to help.

It shouldn’t take someone who is in the spotlight for us to give a shit about the 1.1 MILLION lives that are affected on a daily basis by mental illnesses like depression and suicide.

And you know what, until we don’t just care for those few weeks after someone takes their life, it is going to continue to happen.

It is the time that we stop thinking of depression and suicide as a phase, or a fad, and start getting serious with how we see and help those who suffer from these mental illnesses.

It does get better , but it can be hard to believe it will, I know that first hand. I never thought it would; it seemed so foreign to be happy, but when I was able to see the world in a macro-perspective I was able to see how things may truly get better.

By Christopher Degenaars 27 Jul, 2017
It is true, not much has me more excited than Sunday night, knowing that the week is about to begin. Fridays aren't special to me, they aren't exciting, and in all reality, I hate them.

To get to do something you love to do, every single day, is pretty amazing, but to get to do it at 19-years-old is a whole different level of gratefulness and excitement for what the future holds.

I have worked at Long Drive Agency for a little more than ten months now, and in that time, I can whole heartedly say that I have not woken up in the morning wishing I didn't have to go in, or that I wanted to call in. It simply has not been something that has gone through my mind.

This feeling is something I wish for everyone to experience, that everyone in their life could truly love what they do so much that Monday morning beats 5 pm on a Friday.

I get that not everyone will get to and that it can be hard to think that happiness may mean living a little less fancy, but I am so anti-complaining about life. At the end of the day, this is your life, and in reality, you have absolutely no reason to complain.

It goes back to the thought that there are way worse situations that you could be in, from unemployed, health issues, family problems, the list goes on.

Ya, to do what you love to may mean cutting back on how many times you are going out, it may mean skipping happy hour today, or it may even mean downsizing to a smaller home or getting a less expensive car. You may have to sacrifice some of the material things, but do they outway your emotional happiness?

At the end of the day, that is what matters, and that is the question we all have to ask ourselves; what do we want in life?
By Christopher Degenaars 08 May, 2017

It isn’t a secret. There is no doubt in anyones mind that death will come, but the question I always have is what happens after?

Not so much spiritually, because I’ve learned that it isn’t worth questioning, because we will never truly know outside of what we believe.

I question what is said after, what is talked about, who says what about me, who shows up to my funeral that I hadn’t talked to in years, or who shows up that used to talk down to me. That is what I question, that is what I work for.

My biggest drive in life is my legacy, it is what I leave behind, what I leave for my friends and family to talk about. Not the money, but the actions.

There is SO much negativity in this world, and so many people spend their entire lives being negative, rude, hurtful, and are more focused on themselves than they are on helping someone else. So many people would rather talk about all the bad in the world than they would the good, and that is devastating to me.

One day, maybe soon, maybe a long time away, you are going to die. You may not know when, you may not have the heads up, and if you don’t, how will the world remember you?

You don’t get to come back and fix the relationships, or rebuild the bridges, or apologize for the comment that made that person stay up late crying. It is done with, you made your bed, and now you have to sleep in it.

The comments you leave on someones status, the messages you send to someone, the things you say in person or behind their back all matter. You don’t want to admit it, you don’t want to think it matters, but it does.

No body wants to think about the consequences to their actions because they know it wouldn’t be good, no one wants to listen to WHY it matters, because we are all too busy. We are all too tired. We are all too tired.

We are all too good.

But one day, you will die, and one day, people will be telling stories about the impact you left on their life, the time you made them laugh. Or the time you made them cry. Or the time you made them hopeful, or faithful, or thankful. Or, suicidal.

If I could challenge everyone to do one thing, one thing every day moving forward, it is to be aware. Be self-aware of what you say and do, and be aware of those who you engage with, what they say, do, or imply.

Every day we make our beds, and one day we will need to be able to sleep in them — will you be able to?

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